| Location | Birmingham |
| Age | 47 years |
| Date of Birth | 7/1961 |
| Date of Death | 2008 |
| Visitors | 1,309 since 17/02/2008 |
| Creator |
richard todd
27th july 1961
aged 46
birmingham
ex husband to carol father to jay aresha lacey grandfather to paige and clayton and in law to natasha.
richard passed away 16th january 2008 from multiorgan faliure and c diff bug.
richard was my ex husband we still kept intouch and were still friends so much that i was with him when he passed away. richard was a lovely person that would give anybody anything even his last penny . richard died of the dreded demon alcohol this illness distroyed hislife and ours.
when this illness takes over you do not think straight you only think of yourself not what it is doing to your loved ones. we all tried to help richard but there is only one person that can do that that is yourself.
richard should not of gone so soon he never had the chance to see his three children grow up Jay 23 Aresha 21 Lacey 18 or his grandchildren Paige 4 Clayton 2 now he will have to watch from heaven the good the bad and the sad times we will have during our path of life.
Goodnight god bless love carolxxx
happy birthday
rich just to tell you happy birthday for tomoz hope you have a good 1 still miss and love you carol xxxxx happy birthday dad love jay aresha lacey and tasha hope you have a good 1 dad love you xxxxx. happy birthday grandad have a nice day love you loads paige and clayton xxxxxxxx
hi rich as been a while since iv been on just to say havent forgot you never will, all the family are ok the grandkids paige and clayton are growing up now, please look after us speak soon love carolxxxxxxxxx
another new year
another new year upon us still miss you still think about you cant believe it is neally 2 years time flies so quickly . speak soon lots of love carol xxx
happy birthday rich
happy birthday for tomorrow rich been up to grave today put some lovely red roses on for you paige as wrote you a letter all by herself it is lovely. i surpose you will be having a drink or two have a good day thinking of you tomorrow and always lots of love carolxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
miss you still
hi rich hows things we are going on holiday tomorrow will you look after us all we will be away for farthers day the kids send there love and when we get back we will come up and put some flowers on your headstone. things are fine here all the kids are fine and well paige and clayton are getting big paige always ask about you and always wants to come and put flowers on your headstone. speak to you soon lots of love carol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx wish jay a happy birthday for you on the 20th he is the big 25 how time flies.
wedding anniversary
hi rich would have been 27 years today even though we only done 18. been up and put some red carnations on your head stone the the same you wore on our wedding day everybodys fine speak to you soon love and miss you carolxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx.
paiges birthday party
hi rich hows things still missing you just to tell you your grandaughter will be 6 tomorrow so can you send your love down to her sbe still talks about you like we all do. she having a little party today so i am sure jay and aresha will have a drink for you. going now cooking chicken speak to you soon keep us all safe love you always carol. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
still miss you
hi rich sorry not been on for a while forgot password jay and tasha have sorted it for me so back up and running now. cant believe it is a year tomorrow since you put up that fight to stop with us but that was not to be. every one is ok paige and clayton growing up nice and the kids are fine as you should well now you are watching over them. going to come and put some flowers on your headstone tomorrow if there is room your mom goes up every other day bless her. going now rich look after us all speak to you tomorrow love carol xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
1 Last word
Its took me a year to write on here so i may as well face all my fears. I may as well say what i need to say. I LOVE YOU DAD i really do, i just wish i could have seen how much when you were with us. Im in bits now dad, on my own cause this is how i have to do it. I cant say how i feel in front of everybody cause i just cant, just like you couldnt but i want you to know that we all love you dad, and we all honestly do. If there is a heaven ill see you there and even if its a reflection of earth and you still love a drink then let me be the one one to buy the round as you'll be my DAD no matter what. Love you dad, i really do love you dad. If you knew how many friends of mine were jealous of me because they wished there dad was just like you you wouldnt believe it and i took this for granted. I love you DAD, I love you so much x x x x
Plonka continued x 2 (see below 2)
We'll probably have to stop calling him monsters inc after i've seen him because Mike in monsters inc had 1 eye and when i've finished with my so called uncle mike he'll be lucky to have 1 head. I didnt even see nanny dorren at xmas because of him. I had 101 ways i was gonna fck him up in nans house running through my head and at the end of it a few boys said to me do i really want to be doing that it my nans house. No. I dont. But what goes around comes around and i can guarantee that birmingham aint that big but ill see him soon. Sorry to put a downer on it dad and your probably screaming for me to let this go but i cant. Thats 1 man on my hitlist, the good thing is that what goes around comes around, so as he likes to team up so do I. I've got a good few boys who i can call on to go "Medieval on his ass".
Sorry to sour things, im gonna go now. I dont know if this has helped me or even if theres any point to it. Yu may be looking down saying dont waste ya time, then again ya may not even be looking down but then when theres a question where no one know the answer no one is wrong. Dad i might see ya soon, not as soon as you or the people reading this think (im not suicidal or anything) but the stone dont lie far from the path. I like my drink too. Im always getting moaned at about how much i love a drink (Thats your fault by the way) but im not dependant i can go without (Well i start clucking and that but i can go without). Ive raided my cupboards for the Tia Maria tonight, i needed the Dutch courage to just write on this,to tell you what im feeling, the funny part is i've been an hour writing war and peace yet im no where near empty. Theres still a load i need to get of my shoulders. I've enjoyed writing this, ive cried non stop, whether its helped or made things worst is a different story but we'll see how long it is before i need to come and let go on here again. (Mom, Tash if you do read this dont get asking me if im alright or if im OK just let me be please). Dad, ill write to you soon, if there is a translator in the sky thanks for helping my Dad. By the way dad theres this thing called the internet where you can get any song you want. I'll list the songs i've been listeneing to so if theres a juke box in the sky with every song ever made put these ones on.
Burning Spear - Marcus Garvey
Burning Spear - Slavery Day
Gregory Isaacs - Night Nurse
Bob Marley - Redemption Song
Sanchez - Frenzy
Just a couple dad, between crying, writing, smoking, drinking this is about as much as ive listened to, oh yeah i forgot i listened to barrington levy here i come, that is 1 song that i definitely get from you. I can remeber this about the same time i remember i started to remember. Any way peace be with you man dread, nuff love xxx
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